Matthew and I went to baby story time for 0-18 month olds at the library. It was his first visit to the library and we couldn't have been more excited. Being typical Matthew he sat in my lap for 3/4 of the class being super serious and taking everything and everyone in before hopping off to explore and play. By taking in everything and everyone I mean he was almost dumbstruck by Mr. Little Temper Tantrum and Mr. I'm Two Years Too Old for This Class and My Mom Doesn't Care What I Do Because She's Too Busy Breastfeeding After Coming Into Class Late and Interrupting Everything.
Let's start with Mr. Little Temper Tantrum. Matthew and I came into the classroom and sat in the open space between a nice mom with a darling little girl and a set of parents whose child was running in circles around the room. Ignorant me didn't realize that this should have been red flags #1 and #2. Why was there a big space and why was the kid running around like a wind up toy? Next time I'll ask myself that before plopping my baby down. As soon as the class started the parents attempted to retrieve the child and were rewarded with a giant screaming and crying fit. Honestly, he was a sweet kid but I'm sure it was his nap time or something and he just didn't have it in him that day. That happens. However, these particular parents continued to sit in the circle allowing his hysterics to overtake the activities for a full 15 minutes. Nobody could hear anything and we all missed the songs and such. Matthew was so taken in with this behavior that he was completely absorbed by watching this one man show. He just sat there staring with one hand in his mouth and eyes wide open in shock. I tried readjusting him so that his back was to the boy, but Matthew just ended up trying to look back over his shoulder. Even I have to admit that it was a pretty impressive fit. Eventually I just held my hand up to block his line of sight. I wasn't trying to be rude, but I was tired of this display and I wanted Matthew's attention to go elsewhere. I would have exited the room much sooner if Matthew had been the one having the meltdown. By the time they left a third of the class had passed. I just want to go on record that I thought it was rude and annoying of the parents not to be more considerate. I also feel very bad for them because I think they were excited for story time. I'm sure they'll be there next week to give it another go.
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Basically, my point of this post is that we've spent the last 24 hours ignoring whining and tearless crying outbursts. Honestly, his attempts at fit throwing are about on par with an angry kitten, but it's still annoying nonetheless. We've made it 8.5 months without a single arched-back screaming tantrum, and one 30 minute class taught him 4 months worth of naughtiness. This also makes me worry about how impressionable he is!
So to all of you parents out there who refuse to depart places in a timely fashion when your kiddo is being a brat, and to all you parents who refuse to redirect rude and out of place behavior, you all suck and should stay hidden away in your houses where your kids are obviously allowed to run the show and in turn become raging obnoxious human beings through no fault of their own. I believe in a combination of nature and nurture. I know some children have personalities that are more challenging than others, but all kids will be kids and it's your job to make sure they become good people. AND to all of you parents who are doing your parent job... THANK YOU! You are rock stars.
Disclaimer... and now that I typed this I pray that Matthew stays sweet and doesn't grow up to be a jerk! I also pray that if baby #2 comes along that he is as easy going as Matthew and also doesn't grow up to be a turd. Thankyouverymuch.
Ahh the joys of parenthood!! Hang in there & everything will turn out ok. You are his best role models.
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